My daughter's sixth birthday is one week from today, and she has already received two gifts.  I let her open one, as I suspected what was in it and I knew she would be absolutely thrilled.  She was.  The most beautiful outfits for her American Girl doll, Samantha.
But also with the gift was a birthday card.  Of course.  And now I feel compelled to take down the sympathy cards that have been hanging up for a month.  I don't know where to put them, and I can't throw them out.  For me, they finalize the book of my grandmother's life.